Reason 2: Black Women Appear Too Unapproachable
Black women have a bad habit of appearing unapproachable without knowing it. Others may describe Black women as mean or B’s because their faces often look upset, powerfully distant and coldly rejecting at times. However, someone more intimate and knowledgeable of the Black woman would realize that it's a mask that Black men are somewhat responsible for creating in the first place.
The sad truth is that we have let down a lot of our sisters by being absent dads, inadequately educated and dating outside the race (primarily celebrities not in the general population). These are tough pills to swallow for African-American women and only serve to add insult to injury. Sadly, it's difficult to find a race of people who treat their women as poorly as we have in the recent past.
Yes, I know a series of sociological factors (racism, lack of access to quality education, hip-hop music) have contributed to the lack of available Black men to marry, but those factors don't exactly comfort the bruised egos of our Black women. Truth is, the large majority of Black women in their late 20's to 40's should be married by now if compared to their White counterparts.
Black women have a bad habit of appearing unapproachable without knowing it. Others may describe Black women as mean or B’s because their faces often look upset, powerfully distant and coldly rejecting at times. However, someone more intimate and knowledgeable of the Black woman would realize that it's a mask that Black men are somewhat responsible for creating in the first place.
The sad truth is that we have let down a lot of our sisters by being absent dads, inadequately educated and dating outside the race (primarily celebrities not in the general population). These are tough pills to swallow for African-American women and only serve to add insult to injury. Sadly, it's difficult to find a race of people who treat their women as poorly as we have in the recent past.
Yes, I know a series of sociological factors (racism, lack of access to quality education, hip-hop music) have contributed to the lack of available Black men to marry, but those factors don't exactly comfort the bruised egos of our Black women. Truth is, the large majority of Black women in their late 20's to 40's should be married by now if compared to their White counterparts.
However, I do bring good news and one very easy suggestion that should attract your Black Adonis despite the statistics. SMILE because there are millions of responsible, highly educated (college and self-educated), strictly Chocolate-loving Black men who are struggling to find lasting love as well. Trust me, they would love to make your acquaintance. All they need is a simple sign that you are ready for them to introduce themselves. A stunning smile, playful attitude and fun-loving spirit mixed with walk of a Nubian Goddess are all any Black man needs to get inspired and approach with the swagger of a King.
Fact is, Black men need more smiles in their in life. Coming home to a Black woman with a smile on her face is therapeutic and ensures that even the worst day ends well. With all the stress from the recession, racism and social ineqaulity that Black men must endure, what Black man do you know who couldn't use a warm smile right about now? So ladies, remember to SMILE when you are in public...Black men are looking and waiting for you to make it personalized too.
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